Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Forget Santa I'm looking for the Sandman.....


So when I first became a mother, I heard that the first six weeks were the hardest and I had that point to look forward to, while enjoying everything in between of course. It was just the sleep deprivation hit in a way that is almost impossible to imagine unless you've experienced it. After six weeks, sure Henry got better here and there. He went from waking up every two hours to three and then progressively got better. A couple times, even giving us a 6 hour run!!! If only I would have known that those times would be few maybe I would have enjoyed them a little more instead of laying in bed wondering if I should go in and check to make sure everything was ok since he was quiet for so long. Anyway, what I'm getting at is Henry, in all his charm, fuzzy headedness, his way of smiling and laughing at his admirers and studly 22 pound self is the best thing that John and I have had happen to us....yet he absolutely stinks at sleeping at night. Today is one of those mornings that I'm teetering on hysterical laughter and tears, I'm not quite sure what will send me one way or another. So far I've heard a list of about 50 different ways to make Henry sleep through the night and nothing as worked although we've tried it all. Well I started this post at 6am and am now finishing it at 5:45pm because my back up has finally arrived (that's John). I'm always interested in hearing new suggestions but I'm sort of guessing that Henry has a game plan of his own. Cheers to being a Mom!

5 comments:

  1. This wont't help him sleep now, but fast forward 13 years when it's time to get up for school and he wants to sleep, you will have the joy of WAKING him up!

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  2. Josie, I literally could have written this post 10 months ago! Audrey was a HORRIBLE sleeper. She couldn't quite figure out the concept of self-soothing and I am a big wussie when it comes to crying-it-out.
    My first breakthrough came when I started reading the Baby Whisperer and using her Pick-up, Put-down method. It was a hellacious week of sleep training and she still didn't actually sleep through the night until she was a year old, but I now have a kid who can easily put herself to sleep because we have a consistent bedtime routine.
    I know it seems ridiculous to try to read something when you're already hysterically sleep deprived, but it really helped us and maybe there's something in there that can help Henry too.
    Hang in there! You might not believe it now, but someday you will be sleeping through the night too!

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  3. Thanks Gillian, I will check out the book for sure! I can almost can't believe I haven't slept more than 6 hrs straight in almost 7 months. I appreciate the encouragement :) And Aunt Bea, I am eagerly awaiting the day I can say "Rise and Shine Henry!"

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  4. Babysitter #1 is ready for a night shift!

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  5. I just reread my comment and I suppose based on my grammar that yes I can believe I haven't slept that much lately

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